Families often look forward to going on vacation together. This is a chance to spend time together, make memories and explore new places. While everyone may come across some challenges while they’re planning a vacation, parents who are divorced have some very specific ones that they have to consider.
If you’re planning a vacation with your children after you divorce, avoiding these three errors may help to reduce the challenges and stress you’ll face.
Mistake 1: Failing to double-check dates
One of the first things you should do is check the dates that your children will be with you. Give yourself ample time for travel, so you shouldn’t plan to fly out with the kids just a few hours after you pick up the kids from your ex. In some cases, vacation plans may override the traditional parenting time schedule, so that may be a factor.
Mistake 2: Failing to notify your ex
You may be required to notify your ex of the vacation plans. This is critical if you plan on traveling away from home because some parenting plans have geographical restrictions. Even if you aren’t required to notify them, it might be a good idea to do so as an act of good faith with your ex.
Mistake 3: Failing to plan for communication
Your children and your ex will likely want to communicate when you’re on vacation with the kids. Making plans for this can help everyone to enjoy the vacation. While it’s likely not required, it may be a good idea to take pictures so your children can share their experiences with their other parent.
It’s always a good idea to include guidelines about vacations in the parenting plan. This can help to set clear expectations for everyone involved. Working with someone familiar with setting the terms may be beneficial.