One of the most challenging aspects of divorce is that children have to learn how to divide their time between two homes. Even if one parent stays in what was the family home, it will still be different living there without the other parent.
It’s up to the parents to make it as easy for the children as possible to adjust to live in both homes. These tips may be beneficial for any parent who’s going through this situation with their children.
Create a routine in your home
Children need to have a routine, which you should set as soon as possible when you move into your home. Some parents think that giving the children leeway at first is beneficial, but that’s not a good idea.
Provide the children with a dedicated space
The children should have a dedicated space in the home. This might be a room of their own, but it could also be a set of dressers or another area. If possible, allow them to decorate this space on their own. Ideally, you will let your children help you determine how to help them.
Give them a safe space for emotions
A safe space to release their emotions can benefit children greatly because they know they don’t have to hold them all in. Take your cues from the children as you give them this opportunity. Some children may not be forthcoming at first; however, being consistent with the safe space may be beneficial.
Children thrive on consistency, so it’s likely beneficial for your children to have a parenting plan in place. This should outline the specific terms that each parent will follow while raising the children. It’s ideal to get this plan set as early as possible after the split, so working with someone familiar with these matters may be beneficial.